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May 2025: Words to Lead By
Please note - there will be no July newsletters.
Essays and Resources to Engage Your Spiritual Leadership
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May a Way Out of No Way
by wren bellavance-grace
This is not about gift cards or Hobbits; it’s really about Love.

Like many of us, I have felt the world and all its urgency too much with me. There’s no need to create another litany here of all the abuses of human dignity and collective well-being we bear witness to. The photo that accompanies this note shows a tangle of roots, limbs, branches and vines overgrowing a path; we can’t see whether the path continues beyond our line of sight. The small way forward might not be accessible to all. This photo could be a metaphor for the World of Church in 2025. There are lots of roots and branches thrust upon what was a well-defined path. Changes in demographics. Struggling pledge drives. What children and youth need since COVID. We could name more. How do we navigate, together, in an uncertain direction?

By Love. 

My certainty stems from my faith in our Universalist heritage that affirms there is no being outside of the transcendent force of Love. And it echoes in some of my favorite novels, Like 1984. Fahrenheit 451. The Hunger Games. You might wonder, do you really need more dystopia in your life right now?? Fair question. But these stories are not just about human cruelty; they are about ordinary heroes - people who look like us - dropped into extraordinary circumstances. Like it or not. 

One unlikely hero, a hobbit named Frodo Baggins, found himself on a quest that led him on paths like the one in this photo. He complained to his companion, the wizard Gandalf, “I wish this need not have happened in my lifetime.” Many of us would agree with that today. But Gandalf tells him that is not in our power to control. All we can do is decide what we will do with the time that’s been given to us.

So we must navigate this path, but we have tools to guide us - practices of spiritual leadership like discernment, faithful risking, and covenant, to guide us.

And gift cards. . .
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Resources to Meet the Moment
From NER Staff
White text superimposed on an image of hands holding soil and seedlings in a circle: Congregational Care in a Time of Urgency.
Join together with regional staff and other congregations on Thursday, May 22 from 7:00 to 9:00pm on Zoom.

The world outside our congregational doors is chaotic, noisy, and frightening. Congregations can be a powerful source of resilience in times like these. We will give you concrete practices and skills to care for your community so you can move from reactivity to faithful responsiveness and do what is yours to do in the world.

Registration is free and required. This event will be recorded; please register to receive the link when it is available, even if you cannot attend live. The registration deadline is Wednesday, May 21.
From the Commission on Social Witness (CSW)
CSW has posted the feedback session recordings for the three proposed 2025 Congregation Study Action Issues (CSAI). One of these will be selected during General Assembly by UU member congregations for three years of study, reflection, and action. The recordings, as well as the CSAI texts and more information about the process, can be found on the UUA website.
August OWL Facilitator Training
Pilgrim Lodge, a UCC camp in West Gardiner, Maine, is hosting a facilitator training for the junior/senior level Our Whole Lives with co-trainers from the UUA and the UCC. The training will take place this summer, on Friday through Sunday, August 1 through 3.

Registration is open for a fee. More information is available on Pilgrim Lodge's website. The registration deadline is Friday, July 11.
For Emerging Adults
Emerging adults across the Association! Are you looking for community and connection that your local congregation can’t quite provide (yet)? Are you looking for Pastoral Care or a small group ministry? A pen pal or leadership opportunity? How about news about young adult events and happenings from around the nation? If you answered yes to any of these queries, please consider signing up for TEAM - The Emerging Adult Ministry. This community has all of the above and then some!

Big ups to the National Emerging Adult Taskforce who makes this all possible.
Speaking of... Hello from the National Emerging Adult Taskforce (NEAT)!

In January 2025 a group of UU emerging adult leaders convened and while thinking about our lives as Unitarian Universalists, realized that between Bridging (18 yrs) and getting married or dedicating one's children, there isn't a significant spiritual milestone in between. Yikes! Inspired, this group has decided to help to address this deficiency and they need your input.

We are looking for submissions specifically from 18-24 year-olds and/or UU Religious Professionals. If you meet this criteria, please take a few minutes to fill out this survey.

Please email us if you have any questions.
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